One of the biggest mistakes that I see guys regularly make when going through a painful break up is they basically become a wuss.
I don’t mean to be harsh here but it’s true.
And think about it for a moment.
Did your girlfriend fall in love with a wuss or did she fall in love with a man she could lean on, depend on and emotionally rely?
I’m pretty sure I know the answer.
Breakups are one of the most emotionally trying times in many individual’s lives. Having spent weeks, months, or even years with a significant other only to have them walk away can be very heartbreaking. It can take long amounts of time for individual’s to get over especially hard breakups. Sometimes these breakups turn out for the best but other times it does not.
You may have even broken it off but realize now your mistake.
If you have come to the conclusion that the breakup was a poor choice and want to win your ex girlfriend back, there are a few simple things to remember.
The first thing to keep in mind is that both parties need space for a decent amount of time after a breakup. If an individual constantly bothers and harasses their ex, this will only drive them further away.
While this separation is in effect, one should not stay home and pity themselves but instead go out with friends. If one continues to go out on a regular basis, one’s ex girlfriend may notice how much fun they are having without them and possibly realize the mistake they made.
Not letting one’s self go after a breakup is also important because any changes that an individual makes to their appearance might have a negative response from one’s ex.