The husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam is considered a symbol of halal and purity. People who belong to the religion of Islam are known as Muslims. Islam means peace. Establishing peace in the whole world is the main aim and objective of Islam. That is why Islam is called the religion of peace.
All the positive aspects necessary for a peaceful life including mutual love, friendship, sympathy, and help, are included in the Islamic ideology.
Islam has strict warnings and guidelines for and against any relationship. Islam has made some relationships halal which involve mahram persons and haram some relationships which are usually bound by non-mahram persons. The latter made the relationship lawful. All the ways of conducting the Islamic life of Muslims are discussed and guided by their holy book Al-Quran and various hadith-sunnah which are rare to find in any other religion. This is why Islam is basically called a complete system of life.
In Islam, the marriage between a man and a woman is annulled by the words of the Holy Quran, which is called Nikah. The people of Islamic ideology believe that among the multifaceted purposes of marriage is to protect oneself from various sins and iniquities, to protect religion and faith, to protect vision, to supervise and maintain women, and to expand the human race in a legitimate way.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, Marriage is my Sunnah, whoever does not observe it is not of my party. (Muslim, Hadith 1400, Ibn Majah, Hadith 1846, Fathul Qadir: 3/187, Fatawae Faqihul Millat: 6/22)
Examples of husband and wife relationship in the Holy Quran:
A few verses of the Holy Qur’an enjoin husband and wife to make each other happy and not to cause pain to each other:
يٰٰاَيُّهَا الَّذِيْنَ اٰمَنُوْا لَا يَحِلُّ لَكُمْ انْ تَرِثُوا النِّسَاۤءَ كَرْهًا وَلَا تَعزُلُوهُنَّ لَا تَعْدُلُوهُنَّ لِتَا بَعَبَهَا ْ ُمُوْهُنَّ اِلَّآ اَنْ يَّأْتِيْنَ بِفَاحِشَةٍ مُّبَيِّنَةٍ ۚ وَعَاشِرُوْهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوَهُنَّ بِالْمَعْرُوَهُفِ ۚ فَاِنْ كَ رِوْتُهْتُهُفِ هُوْا شَيْـًٔا وَّيَجْعَلَ اللّٰهُ فِيْهِ خَيْرًا كَثِيْرًا
O believers, it is unlawful for you to take rights from women by force. And don’t make it difficult for them to take back some of what you gave them unless they commit a clear immoral act. And live kindly with them. Because if you dislike them, maybe you dislike a thing and Allah bestows a lot of good on it. (An-Nisa [4]; 19).
وَلَنْ تَسْتَطِيْعُوْٓا اَنْ تَعْدِلُوْا بَيْنَ النِّسَاۤءِ وَلَوْ حَرَصْتُمْ فَلَا تَمِيْلَقَلَوْا كُلَّ الْمَيْلَقَلَعُوْا كُلَّ الْمَيْلَوْلَکُمْ فَلَا ِ ۗوَاِنْ تُصْلِحُوْا وَتَتَّقُوْا فَاِنَّ اللّٰهَ كَانَ غَفُوْرًا رَّحِيْمًا
And you will never be equal [in feelings] among wives, even if you try [to do so]. So don’t lean completely [on one] and leave the other hanging. And if you correct [your affairs] and fear Allah, surely Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. (An-Nisa [4]; 129).
Relationship between Husband and wife in bed in Islam
In Islam, the relationship between husband and wife is considered very sacred, precious, and respected. Even if husband and wife laugh together about this, Allah bestows goodness in their deeds. Although Islam does not openly discuss intimate matters, Islamic rules and principles and There are some general guidelines in the teachings that directly address love, respect mutual love, and satisfaction in the marital bed.
As a Muslim, it is important to remember that the interpretation of these guidelines may vary slightly between different Islamic scholars and cultural contexts and may be contextually nuanced. The romantic relationship between husband and wife in bed in an Islamic way is discussed below:
The discussion can be interpreted in two ways.
1. Before going to bed
2. After going to bed
First, we clear things up before going to bed:
1. Use perfume: Before going to bed, use perfume to attract your partner and make you feel good. It will make you attractive to your partner.
2. Calling by special names: Call your partner by your special name instead of calling him by his usual name. This will increase his love for you and make him unique at the last moment.
3. Helping with everyday tasks: Helping each other with tasks in a relationship increases mutual respect and love. Helping your partner with tasks will strengthen the emotional connection between you.
4. Use messwalk: One of the steps to prepare yourself before spending time with your partner is to messwalk. This will remove bad breath and help you open up with your partner.
5. Be Neat: Before inviting your partner to bed, fix your outfit. Wear clean clothes. Comb your hair. Dress yourself the way your partner likes you.
Now let’s talk about romance in bed: Romance husband and wife relationship in bed in Islam
1. Mutual communication: Be open with your partner. Let him know before going to bed that you want to spend time alone with him.
2. Consent of the partner: It is very important for you whether your partner expresses satisfaction or yes to your wishes. Because, Islam does not support disagreement or disagreement in bed moments.
3.Recite dua: If your partner agrees to you, recite dua before getting intimate with your partner according to Islamic hadith and sunnah. It will make your private moment more pleasant.
4. Protection of privacy: Islam respects the privacy of the intimate moments of the husband and wife. Discussing the details of one’s intimate life with others is frowned upon in Islamic ideology.
5. Do foreplay: Foreplay is important before creating intimate moments between spouses. This is also supported by Islam. Prophet Muhammad (pbuh), the founder of Islam, said, “Foreplay is an important part of sexual intimacy.” Foreplay can include kissing, cuddling, and verbal expressions of love and desire.
6.Achieving satisfaction: Both husband and wife are asked to try to give satisfaction and pleasure to each other in Islamic terms. Through marriage it is important to prioritize each other’s physical and other times emotional well-being in bed.
The Muslim community is a humble, peaceful and benevolent community. They believe in the existence of one God. They believe in the life after death, Hasar, Mizan, Pulsirat, Qiyaamat, Jannat, Hell. They follow Islam with faith and obey the directions. This is why while many other communities are interested in living relationships, Muslims engage in marriage and post-marriage activities as per the orders of Allah.
