We all go through it at one point in time in our lives, the person we love more than anything ends our relationship, or we end it for one reason or another.
Then days or weeks later we make the decision that we want that person back in our lives. That is the easy part, deciding that we want the ex back that is. The hard part is getting that ex back in our lives.
The first step in getting your ex back is to determine why you broke up in the first place.
Was it something you did, something he did, a mutual decision or a misunderstanding. Once you have come to a conclusion as to why the relationship ended you need to sit back and seriously ask yourself if you are willing to take the risk of getting in a new relationship with the same person.
It is important that you think about the arguments, fights, and things that you did not have in common.
The annoying things that he or she did, the things that got on your nerves.
You need to ask yourself if you are sure you want to go back to that.
If your answer is yes then it is time to move forward. Be honest with yourself and with your ex about your feelings.
Have an honest conversation with him or her about the past, what went wrong and what both of you can do to make certain that things do not go wrong in the future. How working together the two of you can have a successful relationship. Now that you have evaluated your feelings and had an open honest conversation with your ex you are on your way to restarting your relationship.
Just remember the key is to be honest with yourself and your ex about your intentions.
Guys really struggle with break ups because let’s face it you’re never taught to deal with emotions.