If you have broken up with your ex girlfriend recently, or even a few months back, no doubt you are desperate to get her back into your arms.
But it’s really important that you remember some very important things before you attempt reconciliation. If your timing is wrong or if you rush into things then unfortunately, through no fault of your own, your reconciliation plan can backfire and I really don’t want that to happen to you.
So if you could read this article for just a few minutes it will be really well worth it.
Breakups are one of the most emotionally trying times in many individual’s lives. Having spent weeks, months, or even years with a significant other only to have them walk away can be very heartbreaking. It can take long amounts of time for individual’s to get over especially hard breakups.
Now if your girlfriend broke it off with her chances are that she didn’t come to this painful decision overnight.
Many women let me know months if not years in advance that they are actually unhappy and that you aren’t meeting her needs.
Unfortunately because most guys don’t naturally know what to do at this moment they sweep it under the carpet and hope that she’ll forget about it.
THAT DOESN’T HAPPEN.
No doubt she’s emotionally exhausted after giving you many hints that she was unhappy and that she wants more from you. That means that she’s probably tried to talk about it until the cows come home and you have chosen not to listen to her.
So don’t try and talk to her about it now. She’s all talked and thought out on the topic, trust me.
The best thing you can do right now is give her some hard earned breathing space because that will help her clear her thoughts and her hearts and be open to even having any kind of communication with you.
So what do you do at this time when you are giving her space?
Well, have a think about it for a moment. When you were together you may have given up an activity, a hobby or hanging out with some of your friends.
You get to be a bit more selfish now so use it to your advantage.